Core Rules & Guidelines for SPH Play

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1. Consent Is Non-Negotiable

  • All participants must give informed, enthusiastic consent.
  • Discuss boundaries, triggers, and safe words beforehand.
  • SPH can touch deep insecurities—never assume someone is “okay with it” without explicit agreement.

2. Establish Clear Limits

  • Define what kind of language, scenarios, or intensity is acceptable.
  • Some people enjoy playful teasing; others may want more intense degradation. Tailor accordingly.

3. Use Safe Words or Signals

  • Always have a safe word or gesture to pause or stop the scene.
  • This ensures emotional and psychological safety, especially in scenes that push sensitive boundaries.

4. Understand the Psychology Behind It

  • SPH often plays on societal ideas of masculinity and worth tied to penis size.
  • It can be cathartic, arousing, or affirming for some—but damaging if mishandled.
  • Be aware of the emotional weight this kind of play can carry.

5. Aftercare Is Essential

  • After a scene, provide emotional support, reassurance, and space to decompress.
  • Humiliation play can stir up unexpected feelings—aftercare helps restore balance.

6. Avoid Public or Non-Consensual Exposure

  • SPH should never be performed in public or shared without consent.
  • Privacy and discretion are key to maintaining trust and safety.

7. Don’t Confuse Fantasy with Reality

  • SPH is a roleplay dynamic—not a reflection of actual worth or value.
  • Keep the distinction clear, especially if self-esteem issues are present.

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